Regardless of who we live with (significant other/spouse, parents, children, roommates, or all of the above), when it is time to eat together, we all experience the same song and dance:
-“What do you want for dinner tonight?”
-“I don’t care, what do you want?”
-“Just pick something. Anything.”
-[Picks something]
-“Oh no, not that. How about [something else]?”
-“I don’t know, maybe.”
-“Well, what do you want?”
-“Anything. I don’t care. Whatever you want.”
-“You pick.”
I once read that a relationship is two people in love arguing about what to have for dinner until one of them dies.
Anyway, what is your, I’ll call it, “answer to indifference”? The one meal, either home-cooked, takeout, or even heading to a restaurant that will shut all parties up and cause an immediate, unanimous agreement?
I live with two people: my mom and my BF (who moved in over a year ago). It is an interesting dynamic, and I always jokingly tell people that the two of them get along better than her and I do (but am I really joking?). Given our schedules, the three of us eat dinner together maybe twice a week. The other five nights, she is on her own and the two of us are eating a late dinner together after we get out of work. When we all do eat together, though, it can go either way, but if it heads towards indifference, it can be maddening. I even get into the psychology of it: do they truly not know what the hell they want? Are they afraid to suggest something not wanting to influence the decision (even though that is the point!)? Just trying to be polite? I am guilty of indifference too, as we all are.
In our house, the answer is fried chicken cutlets. The one meal guaranteed to end the stalemate and produce an immediate and unanimous “Okay sounds good!” They are easy, versatile (eaten straight up, in a sandwich, on a salad, etc), and can be accompanied by mashed potatoes, rice, sweet potatoes, fries, veggies, whatever. They can be seasoned with an Italian or Spanish twist, or even Japanese via a Katsu breading.
That’s my answer. What’s yours?