that is very kind response. thank you.
I never cooked when I was young, living at home, initially with my grandparents, then with my parents as they moved to the city for us to have a Chinese education.
As a bride, my mother followed my father to a very remote town in the Island of Luzon to live with my paternal grandparents, who inherited a tobacco business from my great grandparents.
Out of boredom, at 17 years of age , she decided to open a bakery, the only one for the whole village.
The people in town were very supportive as they wanted so much to have fresh bread, cookies .
A huge oven was built, ( really huge, probably the size of my present kitchen which is huge by American standard) ), I only remember it was dome shaped, made of ? concrete , brick or adobo?
Bread and cookies were their specialties.
Filipinos often have fiestas to celebrate their Saint’s day, baptism, wedding, birthday etc.
Those events are quite common. No one owns ovens then, even as I left in 1964. I send my mom a small countertop oven when I arrived here 1964 but she never saw it. She passed away before the oven arrived.
The people in town would bring pigs, chickens ( very seldom beef , story is that the cow has tears when they know they are being slaughtered. I hardly see goat meat) , and as a courtesy for their buying bread and cookies from us, the meat were cooked in the oven for them, gratis since the wood burning oven was always on as I remember, they come out crisp, delicious! She even made huge pieces of wood to accommodate a pig in that oven. Thanking us, they would give us chunks of the cooked meat in return so we always had lechon and oven roasted chicken . Without refrigeration, they used to submerge the meat in those big commercial oil ( 5 gallon?) as preservative
After 7 years or so, my parents moved away to the City, 7 hours away for use to have education in a private school that taught English and Chinese academics. It is a branch of Hope Christian College in Michigan. My mother sold her bakery whens they moved. The person who bought the bakery continued the practice my mother started, and we still had chunks of meat given to my grandparents which they would bring to us in the city when they visited, preserved in those huge oil container.
Mom was a very good cook, and though I seldom cook when at home, I learned a lot watching her cook.
I married an American who was diagnosed with gluten enteropathy just before we got married in 1972.
That made me start to cook as gluten enteropathy was relatively unknown then, there was no commercially gluten free product in th one days.
There are a lot of Chinese dim sum ( radish cake, turnip cake , vietnamese rice paper to make my spring rolls for him) noodles made of gluten free products and of course, the Filipino desserts made of rice, coconut, and eggs were wonderful
Most coeliacs I understand in those days are rather cranky bec of their diet, but not my husband. As a patent attorney, he entertained a lot with my help, and thus, we cooked together for those occasions. I cook, he chops and clean!
That is my history.
My son has ben trying to take videos when I am cooking, especially when his friends come here when he is home as they often asked for my recipes.