What's for Dinner #109 - the National Sandwich Month Edition - August 2024

Dinner out with friends at the place my band performs at regularly, and which has recently moved to a more ‘casual’ (read less pricy) menu that we wanted to check out.

I started off with a zippy mango-habanero daiquiri from their fabulous & creative cocktail menu.

We shared their “chips and dip,” a favorite from the old menu

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and the pork spring (summer?) rolls with very flavorful and tender pork, shredded veg & a hoisin dipping sauce.

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The rolls were a lil tricky to retrieve from the serving vessel, and we suggested they serve them on a plate — rice paper is sticky, and delicate :wink:

My PIC and I shared the Cubano, which was good, but still a bit hefty at $19,

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and our friends got the ricotta gnocchi with spinach, artichokes, cheese & toasted walnuts.

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The gnocchi were far too doughy & heavy, and when we mentioned it to the server we found out that they were sourced from a local pasta place, not made in house. The sauce was delish & would work fabulously with a nice hunka salmon.

The hostess asked for our input on the new menu they just rolled out a week ago, and also showed us the tentative menu for the new, upscale restaurant they just built across the parking lot, which includes many interesting sounding sharing plates, a pasta & pizza section, as well as a few entrees.

The menu included a gnocchi with short rib and a pappardelle with pesto. I suggested they switch those around. Pappardelle is a meat or shroom pasta. Serve your pesto with the appropriate shape!

Our server last night adores me, and was all over our table, but she did something that made me channel my inner Larry David: every time she came over she would ask in the first person plural pronoun, as in “are we ready to order some drinks?” “Are we … X?” So much so that we started giggling every time she did this.

We? No. :roll_eyes:

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Right Proper Brewing Raised by Wolves Pale Ale and chicken nuggets + fries. This was at local beer garden where my book club met to discuss a book with wolves in the title.

Pretty unoriginal dinner but hit the spot. I will try to do better this weekend.

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Aren’t all the servers asking it that way ? I can’t remember the last time a server didn’t use “we” when addressing somebody at a table. How else should she address somebody at the table ?

Actually, most restaurants we go to, the server will ask: “are you ready to order? Are you done with this?”

Or – another pet peeve of mine: “Are you still working on this?” But I believe I ranted about this elsewhere already . No need to repeat it :wink:

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Interesting - in my experience servers use only “you” when you are the only/solo guest at the table but always “we” when multiple people sitting at the table (even if they only address one person)

I think that is more an issue with the guests as people often don’t know where to put utensils depending if they are still eating or finished. It’s a lose-lose situation for a server either he/she is “too fast” and asked “prematurely” or “too late” and guest will complain on Yelp/TA that the service is too slow to remove plates

My point is the phrasing. I am not “working” on anything. I am enjoying a meal with friends, and I am still eating whatever the server thinks I am “working” on. Putting cutlery on a plate that may have food left on it is a good indication that I am done with a dish.

So simply ask “are you done with this?” or “may I take your plate?”

It’s just so dumb — just like the collective ‘we,’ but that has also always bothered me during hospital stays.

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Had a big lunch with the fam, gyro on a pita, Greek salad and some fries, dinner was a toasted sesame bagel with peanut butter and honey :honey_pot:.

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Figs from my Aunts tree. I’m in fig heaven. Dinner-done.

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Variation of shrimp saganaki, tonight with shrimp , scallops and haddock. Pernod instead of ouzo in the sauce.
Baked Char and Lake Huron pickerel
Roasted sweet potatoes
Romano beans with peppers, tomatoes, bay leaf and olive oil
Greek pilaf






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I think our friends we had dinner with last night were a little over-enthusiastic (the booze, mayhaps? No way!!! :crazy_face:) when they invited us over for an afternoon swim and a cookout at their place today.

The weather wasn’t all that great: warm-ish but cloudy, so I only showed up briefly to watch them feed last night’s disappointing gnocchi to their chickens & rooster, and the cookout was but a tipsy idea.

That was totes copacetic with us, as I had been marinating two strip steaks since yesterday for another rendition of yum nua. I was also kinda looking forward to a quiet night at home, so it all worked out perfectly :smiling_face:.

My PIC requested I kick up the bird pepper amount for an extra fiery dressing. Fiery it was. Nice n crisp lettuce & very flavorful cherry tomatoes from the farmers market for the salad, and a good way to use up the cilantro and Thai basil lingering in the crisper.

We only ate the one steak, which was plenty. My PIC did an excellent job grilling the steaks to med-rare, and man — that marinade makes for a meaty umami 'splosion in yo mouf!

I did finish the salad bc duh :wink:

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A late mish-mosh meal tonight, because even though I figured I’d be home late after spending the day in southern Maine antiquing, and EVEN THOUGH I had taken out ingredients for pizza tonight to defrost, my brain decided on something else as I was driving home.

Do you know how hard it is to change the mind of a woman, even when you’re a woman? Yeah. Not happening. So men (and women), don’t even try it. You WILL lose the argument. Even with yourself. :rofl:

BISO chicken breast oiled up, seasoned with salt and pepper, roasted in a 400° oven for 30 minutes, then sprinkled with Spicewalla’s Honey and Herb seasoning blend to finish roasting (maybe another 20 minutes?).

Ataulfo mangoes to use up before they went bad, so a chopped mango, red bell pepper, & a bit of key lime juice Basmati rice made, along with some CSA sautéed zucchini, red onions, and my 3 deck tomatoes chopped up and added with dried savory and garlic powder.

There was wine.

And nothing bought on my antiquing travels, but I had fun. I almost bought this folk art art pig watering can…water would come out of his snout…but I abstained. But damn, he was adorable!

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I don’t think I could have abstained, he is adorable. Price?

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Dinner was Trini-Chinese chicken thighs, rice, bok choy, shitakii mushrooms, carrot and green onion cooked in chicken broth. Cucumber & onion salad with oo, black vinegar, sweet chile paste and black sesame seeds. About 3/4 through dinner my throat or esophagus felt like it was closing up and I could hardly swallow. I’ll spare you the detail but I managed to get some water down and I’m fine, except for a sore throat. I think it was an adverse reaction to the 5 spice powder since that was the predominant flavor of the dish. Recipe has been deleted and the reaction is probably why I have had a nearly full jar of 5 spice powder for many years.

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Oh no! Glad to hear you made it through! FSP doesn’t like me anymore.

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Black cod meuniere, asparagus, smushed potato.

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Tonight I dined solo. The main course was martinis. The sides were a grilled chicken sausage on a hot dog bun with some BBQ sauce and skinny oven fries sprinkled with Old Bay hot sauce. For dessert the last glass from a pitcher of home made lemon/limeade. For intellectual stimulation I dined with Operation Petticoat on the telly, a classic for the ages. Now my dog wants a biscuit so that he can go to bed.

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Goi cuon again

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He was priced at $45.99, IIRC. Probably could have haggled down to $38.00.

But I wouldn’t have wanted to leave him outside in the elements. And I really didn’t have a place inside for him, because: cats. He had lots of spiky metal on him, so they could be hurt.

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Yikes! Very glad you’re OK! Toss that jar!

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