Maybe badly, but I think this is what I was trying to say. And I agree completely with what you are saying. My plea was that yes we should refrain from talking about what the “French” in general (or more to my point “tourists” in general) eat, and stick to our own individual opinions.
I think, for example, when @Steve tries to characterize opinions of “most Americans, even those that participate in food-related websites,” he runs to risk of offending actual people. That he goes on to intimate that we Americans are all limited in curiosity and learning, and mostly apparently fat, isn’t really very nice, and really doesn’t belong as food criticism here. (And I know, Steve is absolutely American, but this fact doesn’t change the point I was trying to make, any more than some French posters generalizing about French people is also not really okay for me.)
Indeed, I think that @ParnParis would have understood the plea to give his opinions of food, not of groups of people (though I understand better now where he is coming from, as he works in the marketing arena). I depend often on his perspicacious and extremely helpful descriptions of restaurants (and other food/wine recommendations) whether he is advising to go or stay away.
And though I am glad to see, for example, @onzieme’s edit, I still think there is some major generalizing going on. I know in the summertime especially, I find myself annoyed with “tourists” who seem never to get out of Manhattan and then think they have been to New York, so I get the observations and the reasoning. It is just that since the Americans (and English) you are talking to are at least also contributing to this food board, perhaps you could consider that we are individuals like you, sometimes feeling adventurous about a meal, sometimes looking for comfort while traveling.
I’ve noticed, for example, that some travelers who post here seem to be able to eat two long tasting menu meals a day, in order to try it all, not miss anything. This seems like the antithesis of the travelers being teased in this particular post. Yet those travelers also get comments about not doing it right.
Finally, I have to confess, that when I travel to Carpinteria, CA, I always head to what was supposedly Julia Child’s favorite “Spot” there for the “best” burger in the land (assuming this would not be what @onzieme travels to America for either!):