I’m just being a jerk. 
Actually, I like the CH employees (or ones I’m calling out as CH employees) the most. I’ll miss them, but really, there’s no reason for me to stay on CH anymore, it holds no appeal for me. I was barely posting when they deleted my post, which was the icing on the cake. It was more the excuse, rather than the reason.
And the flame-war comment was in reference to everyone being nice (which CH is, it’s a very polite place) but ultimately boring, and I feel silly talking to people who seem to work there and are not interested in the things I’m interested in. And I don’t think Homecooking is cliqu-y at all, they’ve been very nice, except for a few which I personally can’t stand, but that will happen everywhere. Whoever is running that place is doing a good job at moderating.
I’m more excited to see Hungry Onion take traction and having joined in so early, I can guide it to be a forum I’d like to participate in, rather than complain how it’s not.
