Hi, Phil:
I generally agree with both the “Better safe than sorry” and “Regulate for the lowest common demoninator” precepts. And you are certainly correct that food hygiene regulations and standards are at least partially responsible for reducing the total number of deaths and hospitalizations from food-borne illnesses. I would never advocate any wholesale repeal. And I don’t, as a practice, re-use marinades.
However, I think this particular issue is drastically over fear-mongered. Much the same happened in response to the 1993 Jack-In-The-Crack O157:H7 incident, and it was years before I could find a hamburger cooked rare even in a real restaurant. At one point I actually drafted a release form just to get a decent hamburger.
Moreover, some kinds of this fear-mongering are themselves dangerous. For instance, many people are so afraid of food poisoning they resort to multiple cutting board strategies, deploying squadrons of poly boards, when the best available science is that wood boards are hygenically superior. See, e.g., http://faculty.vetmed.ucdavis.edu/faculty/docliver/Research/cuttingboard.htm For another, prevalent use of antibacterial soaps probably causes more problems overall than it solves.
Finally, this kind of fetishistic fear can get in the way of trying really fine food. In Tahiti it is not uncommon to “age” fish used to make poisson cru by intentionally leaving it in the hot sun for hours before “cooking” it in lime juice and coconut milk. The bacteriologically squeamish will run away like their hair is on fire, but they are missing out. The same can be said of hanging fowl and dry ageing beef. It even turns out that salmon is better with a little age on it!
For me, I think a basic understanding that salt+sugar+acid+refrigeration makes for a lousy bacterial incubator is within the capacity of even a dunce cook.
Aloha,
Kaleo