35 Modern Dating Rules... since VD is coming up ;-)

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/02/12/style/modern-dating-rules.html?unlocked_article_code=1.L1A.hZcR.pZoG22BoDFo0&smid=url-share

I’ve never read The Rules, but I am guessing these are different. Heartily agree with most of them — pacifically #2, #3, #7 (seems like a ‘no duh’), #21 (again, abso-fuckin-lutely), #24, #26 & #31, which are just riffs on the same theme, really, and #35.

I haven’t dated in well over 2 decades, so the endless txting before an actual date didn’t exist. Some of the ‘who pays’ or traveling together ASAP or meeting the parents within a year are also pretty circumstantial :woman_shrugging:t2:

Fun read, in any event.

I refused to buy it, so I took it off the shelf at Barnes & Noble and read it in the cafe. It’s absolute trash, and I had one of my biggest schadenfreude-fests ever when one of the authors got divorced.

I agree with many of those rules, but whoever decided “no roommates past age 28” either lives outside of NYC, or in NYC with a trust fund. And I can see the “no diminutive nicknames for adults,” but I think Sen. Jamie Raskin seems pretty mature.

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Yeah, my PIC and I both commented on how roommates are a necessity if you live in a big city and/or are in grad school.

I prefer the rule “no skateboard after 28,” but that’s just me.

I have but one rule for dating these days: don’t.

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